I'll do the lazy cut/paste version up front:
There are some good sites here.
Saturday I met with a group from meetup.com, local Atheists and Agnostics. We planned to bowl, but could not get a lane, so we hung out, drank beer and ate snack bar food. It was good to get together with strangers whom you didn't have to worry about the j-word rearing its bethorned head :-)